Death is an unwelcomed visitor, even though it is an inevitably awaited guest, because it is a right, a destiny for every human being, and an unavoidable fate that we cannot escape from.
Death can cause two things in us either fear or relief, when we are in the right and we have fulfilled our roles as it should be, that we have acted for the good of ourselves and others and that we have lived according to our natural human essence, the end will necessarily be pleasant even though it appears painful or intolerable. On the other hand, the fear that death arouses in us is due in almost all cases to the lack of morality, faith, regret and remorse over the course of life that we have traveled without realizing the importance and the priority of living in probity, this fear which is announced at the time of a minimum of pain or danger, and it is undoubtedly there that human beings must realize their existence, the purpose of their creation, of their duty to God and his creatures without exception. Life is a total freedom for human beings, but it is necessary to respect the rules of morality and human values, in fact, death can be considered as a freedom from the burdens of life here below, but on condition to be endowed with a set of acts and actions likely to intercede us with God and his mercy in the hereafter. This is how we must live life while putting our death between our eyes so as not to miss the beauty and freedom of one or the reward and paradise of the other.
When death surprises us, all our senses are disrupted except for the heart that suffers from parting, the separation of our dearest people, whether father, mother, friend or lover aches so much for it's something unexpected, it just strikes us all of sudden.
Death and separation are among the most difficult things that pass on a person, but the effect of separation is less painful than death.
The pain of death is great because it separates us from the ones we love, because it comes suddenly without prior knowledge and deprives us of the existence of people who are a source of our happiness, safety, care and love that is impossible to replace.
Death has a bitter taste that no one likes, even though it is a destiny expected from everyone without exception. We hate death because it is the reason for the separation of our loved ones. It is a moment of farewell to life and people, and the beginning of another life of hereafter . Death is an end and a beginning at the same time, an end to our existence on the surface of the earth and the beginning of a different life, an eternal life that compensates us for everything, for lost dreams, for distance from friends and family, for lost love and inner peace and all kinds of deceptions that crossed our lives.
Although the real fear of death appears to most people as something inevitable - or all together - in life, it can be accompanied by an overwhelming and recurring fear of our own death, or the death of the people we love or care about in our lives and without whom we cannot enjoy life. On the one hand, we may be afraid of getting really involved in life, caring for others, or even having hopes for the future; On the other hand, we may have been indifferent at all to the reality of death by convincing ourselves that there is nothing in it worth thinking and that “when something must happen, let it happen.”
We acknowledge that death is a divine right and the only truth , but at the same time, we fear it not only by losing our life, but also by losing the dear persons to our heart. Pain is awful and unbearable, yet we get used to our losses through the running years. Thanks to the grace of forgetting which allows us to reduce our painful injuries little by little.
