(If you haven't read the article mentioned above then click here or
you wont have a clue of what I'm talking about in this one)
Ok, for those of you who did read it
I've included a little
from where the other left off for memory refresh
To fix the situation the judge ordered that the DSS and the Juvenile Justice Department needs to
come up with a plan on what to do with him so he's not to be left in a jail. Personally I think
that was a joke because as I said before we have three weeks to his 18th birthday if they get anything
together at all it'll only be for a few days. But as well as I know DSS they'll stretch it out until
the day before his birthday.
Now the 11/22/21 Update...
As I said, DSS don't have to play by the same rules and this
just one, example but like I said, with their experience in a courtroom
they can get away a lot.
This past Friday I decided to call the Juvenile Justice Dept. because I still haven't heard any updates, and my sons B-Day
is the fallowing Sunday. I spoke with his DJJ Counselor and I asked what they figured out? He said that he didn't think they had
any updates as of now. I then pointed what the judge said about DSS & DJJ getting together to figure out what needed to be
done so he wouldn't be turning 18 in jail. He responded that I would need to call back on Monday and speak with his supervisor.
Again I pointed out that he would be 18 in two days! He apologized and repeated about calling on Monday.
Monday came and I called only to leave a message on her voicemail. I waited two hrs. and called again. Surprise!!
Nope, I just had to leave another message. After about 35 min I decided to call the guy back from the Friday phone
call, But I got his voice mail as well. Finally, around 6:00 PM my phone rang. It wasn't the supervisor, but it was the counselor
from the Friday call. He was returning my call and letting me know that as of now they are at
a standstill. I remind him that my son's birthday was the day before this phone call. He apologizes
again saying there's not really anything he can do about it that ultimately it's up to the DA whether this
goes to adult quarter station juvenile. I didn't remind him that I'm calling about finding out what
the decision was between DSS and DJJ. He then says that he hasn't heard anything about that that they are at
a standstill as far as that goes. Then he lets me know that it's up to the judge really of what happens
on whether he gets released before his court. I didn't point it out again that the judge did in fact
make a court order specifying that I was not taken out of the picture on this that I would still be
used if necessary as a placement but DSS had the option first to find to find a placement or figure
out what they want to do working with DJJ to come up with the solution. That was supposed to happen before
his 18th birthday and we are having this discussion one day after his 18th birthday. So we have a
court date coming up this coming Monday and I'm curious to see if the judge just let it pass or
if the judge actually does anything to the people that did not follow this court order because that's
the difference between the Departments and regular people if I don't follow a court order
it's not good if they don't follow a court order it's no big deal I got another case to deal with in 5 minutes.
Meanwhile my child is still in jail after after a month with the DSS saying that I'm unsafe for this
child to be at my home. That part is the most aggravating untrue part in this currently because when they say
it whether it be in court or wherever all they have to do is say that we had our children took a
second time. To the rest of the public that makes us look like piece of s*** parents that did not follow
instructions or something of that sort. This is Mother untrue comments by DSS. If you read the rest of the
articles that I've put up you'll see that they tried after we've won our children back they tried
a couple different times to get our kids without any grounds to do a damn thing. The last
time when they did take them they had zero evidence that any allegation was accurate however
they took my children and quickly split them up across the country pretty much blocking
us from having a shot at getting them back. Maybe one or two but as a family, it's been destroyed
twice by DSS. There is a rage boiling in me every time I see my children any of them in a tough
situation or possibly bad for their future it makes me get a little more enraged to where I just
really want to say f*** the rules and do bad s***. Having said that like I said in the beginning of all these
articles my goal is to show you the real monster is people that work for DSS I won't be losing my cool anytime soon.
However it is still very very very painful to watch and deal with all the things that we've dealt with.
If any of you readers know of any really good attorneys in this area or just have some really good advice please
comment. We already lost it more than I ever imagined whatever happened to us as a family but now I have a kid
facing prison time and I really need some kind of advice or suggestions or just flat-out help LOL. I'm not
the type to ask for help either but anything is better than nothing.
I will do a follow-up after the court date to let everyone know what happened then. I also wanna
point out that this is a boy/ young man who was going to graduate this year and
because DSS or Janet McCall has a personal grudge with me, he has missed
Halloween, his birthday, and Thanksgiving
all in one whack.
Counties, States, Federal Agencies, it shouldn't matter who they represent All people, departments, and agencies should
be held accountable for taking children with nothing more than their uneducated opinion.
I wonder how many people relate. You just don't know how it feels after it sinks in
that your Family, the babies and toddlers. The kids at the creek. The ones that caused a
bad scare on a trampoline acting like they were chocking. The first born that before he
was 9 mos. old, somehow had an altoid go up his nose. He begins to scream from the minty
burst up his snotty nose. Without a thought at all you pull the straw out of your drink, place it
right at the tip of his nose and suck it out.
Then remembering the Foot Ball games. Baseball games. Marching Band. Or how bout the
time someone knocked on my door because one of the 3 year old kids
was on the side walk. In a panic I swung around to find the other, who
was still hanging with both hands on to the window seal. It doesn't sound like a good parent,
but I know that some of you have kids that are like partners in crime
do understand that kids can get over on Good Parents as well. Christmases with a tree and gifts,
summer vacations at the beach every year. SUV's or Mini Vans. First days to school, catching the
bus.
So Many Memories We Have....
So Many More We Don't Even Get....
You Know I Would Die For Each And Every Kid I Have....
All 7....
I Don't Believe any DSS Worker Would So They Shouldn't Even Have Taken Them...
"Even The future for them is F#*^ed"
As each of them turn 18 and come back we got a lot of
work to do, one kid at a time. Where is DSS for helping them then?
