Certain situations that we experience and decisions that we make in our lives, at first may seem like something very wrong and that will not add anything to our future, but, I have the vision that even from the worst and most stressful things, we can gain valuable results. teachings and learning that we will carry throughout our lives.
Among the many catchphrases I usually say, one of them that I identify with is that “the moment we stop making mistakes, we stop learning”, because I believe it is exactly that way. We learn much more from mistakes than from successes, as mistakes are often what are literally engraved in our minds.
We can get something right ten times in a row, but the first time we make a mistake, it's the one we'll dwell on for days or maybe years, because it was precisely that moment when you most wanted everything to go right and in the end, the opposite happened: we made a mistake, we lost, we let it go, well, there are several ways in which we can express this, but, reinforcing what I say, it's not always so bad when these things happen.
I believe that much of what I learned came from understanding where I went wrong and/or what went wrong and there is no shortage of situations to describe this. I can start by talking about my disappointments in love and how they hurt, because whenever it seemed like something would work out, in fact, it didn't and the pain of rejection and losing what I thought was the perfect person for me was enormous.
But as time passed and the maturity I gained, I realized that those bad moments were great opportunities for learning and not only for love, but for friendships as well. When we have relationships with people and then for some reason that relationship ends or ends, this, in fact, teaches us to analyze their positive and negative points more carefully and helps us to better choose these friendships, just like those who want to try to have a loving relationship for the rest of my life.
So today, I realize that everything I went through, even though it was complicated at that time, actually taught me to be more discerning and cautious with who I want to be close to me, in my circle of contacts. In those days, I couldn't quite understand it, but today, I'm grateful for every single moment that went wrong, because I know it helped me improve as an individual.
Finally, another example I can give is that once, while I was still in college studying in the technology field, I felt like starting a technical course in the administration field, so while I was at college in the morning, and the afternoon was elsewhere in the city. I don't really know why, but at that time it seemed like a great idea and I hadn't yet managed to get my first job, so somehow I thought it would be a good idea to focus on an administrative course.
In short, this course was of no use to my life, at least in the administrative area I didn't get any professional feedback, but in terms of interpersonal relationships, it was sensational for me. From a more shy and fearful boy, on that course I had good opportunities to train and improve those points that were very weak in me.
So, directly with what the teachers taught or indirectly with other students and course mates, I improved my way of talking, writing and relating to people and this was something I really needed, as I have always been very fond of in mine, in a secluded corner. Even though I wasted money on the professional front, as what I learned on the course was of no use in my technological area (programmer), in terms of relationships I improved a lot, becoming more extroverted and communicative.
These are just two examples, but throughout our lives, many situations are similar to these: we do something that won't amount to anything, we go through terrible and clueless moments, but then we manage to learn something new and that It will certainly serve the rest of our lives.
Today I am sure that I don't regret anything, the good or bad moments, they were all worth it, because I learned to be better with them. A battle won or lost will always give us something in exchange for our effort in going through it, it is up to us to have an open mindset to be able to understand in both situations what this learning is, absorb it and use it to our advantage to evolve.
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