Subtitle: Why Most Men Struggle to Attract the Right Woman—and How to Change It

By Michaelson Williams, TSX, author of YOU ARE ILLUMINATI, Trainwashing: The Secrets of Positive Brain Washing, True Success Naturally, The Legacy Wife, and more…

If you're just being introduced to me or my work in the space of human thinking and behavioral psychology, welcome. My name is Michaelson Williams, aka The MichaelsonEffect. While I am not a "dating guru," I have written more than a few books and articles on mass social conditioning—which, unfortunately, has had a significant impact on the modern male-female dating dynamic.

I’ve also been fortunate to date enough women—some who would be considered high profile, and some average—to develop a strong gauge of their behavior—and more importantly, their current iteration of social programming.

I’ve engaged in countless conversations with women from all walks of life and industries, giving me insight into their inner workings that most men will never experience in their lifetime. This has given me a unique perspective, assuring you that you won’t be reading yet another boring, highly technical, or clinical psychology book on modern dating.

I've written a book called The Legacy Wife, explaining the subtle—and not so subtle—natures, and again, social programming of women in mostly the Western world, but quickly moving globally. I'm going to be introducing some ideas to you that you've probably never thought about as it pertains to women's behaviors, in a three-part article series. However, the real meat and potatoes, per se, is in the book The Legacy Wife – Playground Dating Theories. The cover of the book is ugly, but the content within more than makes up for my cover design...lol

If you read my book The Legacy Wife – Playground Dating Theories, you'll see that I currently do not have a "Legacy Wife," so here I will explain why while going over some other important points about modern dating dynamics. The reason I do not have—or choose to have—a Legacy Wife at this point in my life isn't because of a lack of interest. It's simply because I have not created her yet.

It's as simple as that. But for those of you who want—and even need—more detail so that you may understand how to create your own legacy playground, here you go.

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Frankly, the most honest truth I can give you—as I reflect on my life and ask myself the question, “Why don’t you have a ‘legacy wife’ yet?”—is this: I have not found a woman worthy enough for my Greatest Energy—the energy that drives the person.

This may seem egotistical or arrogant to the unknowing, but you would be wrong. When you’ve gone through the journey of a man—a true man—you won’t simply give your essence away to just any woman.

When you reach a certain pinnacle of mind—and this has nothing to do with how much money you make or have in your bank accounts—finding the Legacy Wife may be a bit harder to accomplish. Your baseline for what your Legacy Wife looks like changes and grows. When you are not at a heightened mindset, you will accept almost anything—believing the woman is for you—only to end up in mental anguish months or years later.

Imagine not being desperate to have a woman. Do you know what that feels like? I do. Most men I observe—in life or online—seem to be hoping to run into their wife or any kind of woman, because you likely had no concept of a Legacy Wife before reading this.

Men are walking around in a mental prison most of the time—scared as hell of being “jumped” while moving from their cell to the yard. If you can understand this analogy as a constant state of fear that a woman is going to hand you an emotional beating for simply interacting with her, you're on the right path.

You can't operate this way—it works against you 100% of the time.

Many men—maybe even you reading this right now—interact with women the same way they would move through a prison yard: guarded, tense, and prepared for conflict. You walk around with an invisible shield—not as strength, but as protection—just in case something goes wrong.

The problem is, this mindset bleeds into your body language completely. From your face to your posture, you are closed off.

And while being “closed off” can sometimes attract a woman, it does not work when it is rooted in fear.

If you're asking, “What’s the point?”—here it is:

You should never build a mental prison where fear becomes the foundation of how you interact with women.

This is the end of Part 1 of Article One in this three-part series. Want to read more? Part Two dives into Confidence, Danger, and the Psychology of the Legacy Wife. After that, the series continues with: Why Women Try to Control Men: The "Bad Boy to Whipping Boy" Transformation Explained (Coming Soon!). Or, you can jump ahead by clicking the download link below.

Written by Michaelson Williams
Creator of The MichaelsonEffect | Founder of MMAP Magazine
Download: The Legacy Wife - Playground Dating Theories now.