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13 Apr 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman
We have just talked about relationships that support mutual growth, about safety, curiosity and freedom. But there is one emotion that, more than any other, can quietly erode exactly those things without announcing itself: jealousy. Not because it is...
9 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
Now that we know what relationships that restrict us look like and how to recognise them in time, it is worth turning our gaze towards what actively builds a solid relationship. Not in any grand sense, not through large gestures and solemn declaratio...
7 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
Having established that a well-navigated conflict can become a doorway to deeper understanding, there follows an even more delicate step: what do we do with the differences that remain after the conflict has settled? Not all differences get resolved,...
7 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
Now that we know the real needs of people often live hidden beneath difficult behaviours, a practical question follows naturally: what do we do when those needs collide? When two people, each with their own map, arrive at the same point and neither f...
5 Apr 2026 4 minute read 2 comments luciman
If last time we looked at how a harmful relationship appears from the outside, today I want to focus on what happens inside us, and how what we haven't resolved from the past shows up, uninvited, in every relationship we live in the present. Unresolv...
31 Mar 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
After learning to manage criticism in close relationships, a more subtle challenge emerges: how we change when we are no longer just two people, but part of a group. Within groups, individual behaviour shifts. Sometimes we become braver, other times...
17 Mar 2026 2 minute read 13 comments luciman
If deep listening teaches us to pay attention to what is said, the natural next step is becoming sensitive to what is not said. Because most of the time, truth is not hidden in words, but in the spaces between them. Nonverbal language is present in e...
18 Jan 2026 2 minute read 0 comments luciman
After exploring the relationship with inner time, I realised how much these internal dynamics shape our romantic relationships as well. A couple is not made of two people, but of two emotional worlds that meet, overlap and sometimes collide. Much of...
