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2 May 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
Shared vulnerability, which we explored in the previous article, requires courage. But there is something that makes this courage even harder to mobilise for many people: the past. Not the past as a story you tell at dinner, but the past as a set of...
1 May 2026 6 minute read 0 comments luciman
In talking about the silence between couples and what it communicates without words, we concluded that some of the deepest messages in a relationship are precisely the unspoken ones. But there is a moment when silence must give way to words, and that...
30 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
In exploring authenticity as the foundation of healthy relationships, we arrived at the conclusion that being real in a relationship means bringing everything you are, including the things left unsaid. And that leads me directly to a subject I consid...
29 Apr 2026 5 minute read 2 comments luciman
In exploring what builds a lasting bond beyond initial passion, we concluded that friendship, respect and commitment sustain a relationship through time. But all of these inevitably require something that few people practise well: compromise. Not com...
28 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
Emotional intimacy, which we explored in the previous article, is one of the pillars of a profound relationship. But there is a question that completes it naturally: what happens to passion over time? And, more importantly, what builds a bond that la...
27 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
We were talking about how conflicts reveal the real structure of a relationship and arrived at the conclusion that what remains after a well-navigated conflict is usually more intimacy, not less. And it was precisely that which led me to the question...
27 Apr 2026 4 minute read 0 comments luciman
Understanding love languages and the way each of us receives affection, we arrive at a reality that completes the picture: the same mechanisms that function in good times are put under maximum pressure in conflict. And it is precisely this pressure t...
26 Apr 2026 5 minute read 2 comments luciman
If attraction brings us to the door of the relationship, as we said last time, what keeps it alive once the initial enthusiasm has settled? One of the clearest and most useful explanations I have encountered comes from an apparently simple concept, b...
25 Apr 2026 5 minute read 0 comments luciman
We have just explored how we influence each other in relationships, often without being aware of the depth of that process. But there is a moment prior to any mutual influence, the moment when two people feel drawn towards each other before a relatio...
16 Apr 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman
The boundaries we talked about last time don't eliminate tensions in relationships. Sometimes they even produce them, at least temporarily. And that is precisely why a question follows that I find essential: what do we do with tension itself? Not how...
