According to an english proverb :"Happiness is a habit, cultivate it. " 

Indeed, happiness is to live every day with a new hope and a new deed, to live your life without looking back except for happy memories. Human happiness is gratefulness , patience and forgiveness. 

Happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with these problems. The truth may be that there is a little darker side in each of us, just because someone is happy doesn't mean their life is perfect, happiness can be the result of beautiful little things.

One of these days , some friends of mine, not close enough to know me, asked me why I am always smiling?!!! 

They wonder why I'm always happy, a weird question, but the strange thing is the answer, am I really happy?!! Besides, what do we mean exactly by happiness?!

Yeah, I think I am happy because I want to be happy despite everything. Life is made to be happy, happiness does not mean that everything is in order, but rather to choose joy instead of sadness, optimism instead of pessimism, hope instead of despair , to choose love instead of hatred , to sow happiness instead of depression, to smile instead of frowning . Happiness is both a choice and a challenge in the face of life and its adversities, it must be cultivated with all possible means because it already resides within us, it is just waiting to be revived.

To cry, to be mad or sad won't change anything, it would just spoil my days and harm my soul and body. To smile amid the storming harsh circumstances is the power and strength. It's the only way to defeat those annoying circumstances. Everything is passing nothing long forever. So why losing the precious moments of our life in grief and sufferings. 

I smile continously so that I could live peacefully with no complications. I even, sometimes, feign happiness, because I don't like other's pity, I hate to complain or to seem miserable, I prefer swallowing my griefs than being pathetic. 

Life is ups and downs, we got used to this philosophy, therefore, no need to dramatize things than they are already, what is supposed to happen, would happen willy-nilly. What would not come, won't come even if we move sky and earth. The outcome ends usually by ruining our beautiful days through nagging or crying over spoiled milk, for life is too short to spend it sadly. 

Thus, we see that happiness is a type of feeling that controls the individual, controls him and possesses him. It , in fact, reflects a positive energy on the behavior of the individual, which makes him a stable person in his life filled with a feeling of joy, pleasure optimism and contentment or accompanying another feeling such as the feeling of love which is the utmost key to real happiness. 

Happiness is everyone's dream, everyone's goal, but it is not beyond reach, in the contrary, it's between our hands, in front of our eyes, however, we are often looking elsewhere, searching for it through complicated ways, because we are blind by the fog of the future and drowned in the shadows of the past. 

Happiness is related to nothing material, it resides in the heart, and the heart derives its joy from making the other's happiness through drawing just a smile on the face. So just Smile to life and life will smile to you in return. 

Thanks for taking time to read.