How important is it to fit in , or can you live completely fine without ever fitting in.

What does this mean anyways.

Today was not the first time someone said i don't behave live i come from my country. They'd aid they meet many people from my country and I'm the first that doesn't quote"fit in". Fit in what does that mean, they said my accent and demeanor. One thing of course bis that we are not in my country , actually far from it , so the number of people they meet is a tiny sample. But still , they meet a lot and we are all from the same area in the world , so they know what they are talking about. But today is the first time I thought about it, dors it matter if i don't really fit in with people from my country or should I care that people think i don't belong. Sometimes when people say we don't belong, we try so hard to show them that ,," yh i belong you don't know what you talking about ," today was the first time when i thought " do i really care that know one believes i come from this area because i don't have certain vibe or demeanor, and accent , like what are these anyway. " Do people really believe that everyone coming from a particular country  behaves the same way. Like we all went through the same brainwashing or something. How does everyone from a particular country behave the same way. I know that yes , every county from similar country has particulars like accent , or some knowledge of the area. Some behavioral similarities, but only slightly. BUT HOW THE FUCK DOES people expect that everyone should have the same personality or "vibe". What does that mean. I think about this now because many people feel pressured to potrya that they belong. And i mean it doesn't get much worse than people believing that you ain't come from a country, you spend your whole.lifr just because of vibe. I ask myself should i really care about being perceived that way or should I just give up trying. It's fine right. I know where I'm from , I'm not super keen about the place but at least i know. If people say you don't fit into something particular, then who cares. I know belonging to a group is important but don't let it pressure you to much to change to quite "fit in'.