Children only forgive their parents when they themselves begin to make mistakes. This recognition of one's own capacity for imperfection is what makes the hug possible. But it may also happen that the grown child has grown in his physical dimensions but not intellectually (in a broad sense), in which case he will continue to blame his parents without seeing that he himself is full of errors. We are only capable of forgiving when we reach a level of self-recognition and humility worthy of a complete human being. Whoever lives accusing is an incomplete entity, that is to say: he is living with half of love, half of thought and half of the body.