When one is deeply hurt and touched, there are many negative feelings that invade the soul such as hatred, revenge or anger. These feelings harm the mind and over time can make you sick. Although difficult to accept, forgiveness is and remains the best way to heal.In reality, wrong or injustice causes injuries, especially when the person in charge does not recognize his wrong to apologize. This gesture hurts even more, deepens the bitterness and makes the pain intense. It destroys and sometimes even or in some cases the victim wonders if he is a good person; the person concerned questions himself and harbors very negative feelings in his self-esteem. And when he realizes what the pain is creating in him, the resentment grows to give way to repressed anger.Unwillingness to Forgive Fuels Self-Defeating FeelingsRepressed anger is the result of a constant search for peace. We want to forget the evil and move on while seeking justice. Because as long as pain and resentment are present, the suffering is terrible, even unbearable. However, one cannot do justice to oneself without destroying oneself. Revenge has a price to pay. Forgiveness also comes with a price to pay. But the nature of the prizes differs and so do the results. Revenge destroys and makes evil. Sometimes, to get there, you have to commit acts worse than what you have been the victim of, and that is what is irreparable and eats away at your soul the most.Forgiveness requires sacrificeHealing requires sacrifice. Yes, when you're sick and you want to be cured, you have to accept taking drugs that you don't want or receiving very painful treatments sometimes, or even having an operation. All of this represents sacrifices necessary to obtain healing. The same is true for forgiveness. We must put aside the pride and the pain of having been offended, overcome the desire to do justice to ourselves and let humility take over. Admittedly, it is very difficult to put one's ego aside and forgive. But it is a necessary evil to heal and find peace. Forgiveness eliminates pride, It restores, transforms the giver into a good person and above all calms the spirit. Another aspect of forgiveness is that it makes you mature and respected. Because the one to whom we grant forgiveness in most cases, also receives peace and your positive waves fall on him. It is true that it is often said that nature does not forgive and that evil is always returned in one way or another. It is also for this reason that it is useless to do justice to oneself because nature always takes care of it. Especially in the most beautiful way when you forgive.Furthermore, forgiving does not mean endorsing the fault that has been committed or forgetting it. No way. This is unfortunately what many think and refuse to grant forgiveness. However this is not the case. Forgiveness is just a step to heal the wound caused by the prejudice and to grant oneself peace in order to be able to evolve.So as often as the opportunity arises, forgive in order to live your life more peacefully.Thanks for reading.
