~                ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~♥~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

 When a husband/woman leaves the marriage its a very sad thing, but sometimes it not. 

Now, let's take a close look at the vows you and your husband have taken

  Do you take this man/ woman to  be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward,

for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death  do you apart ?

And If both of you, agreed, then both of you just made a pact and commitment. And it means staying loyal to  his/her soil. And if both of you fight , you must work it out. Period

Now, let's say the husband or wife gets sick in lust. and finds other partners, read those vows, for 'sickness and in health". 

Meaning you have to stick by him or her until their sick  lustful escapade is over, meaning that other person is part of the marriage and your life.   So what do you do?   You go into the closet and scream and shout and curse the day they were born, or...  you can tell God hes always there, watching and ask him, what in the heck happened here?  

After you had  your conversation by yourself, or with God- get up dust yourself off, dry your tears  and get some hot chocolate or tea and relax, your not dead.    Now that you both have another person in your marriage, it's time to move forward.  Now, You will be making dinner for  three,  put an extra  bath towel out and take turns making the bed, since now there is another person sharing the marriage you can all share the house chores.   Secondly,  if that person is a female take her, to her doctor appointments, help her with her female problems, so she can become the best  girlfriend for you and your husband can have. (Since he  already has a wife) she can't be his wife'.    And if the female gets pregnant, celebrate  the other addition to the  family!  And since this female made a life with a married man, (your husband)  you have the right, to name her baby, choose a name like, Adultery or Wedlock maybe Immoral or Norman  if your last name happens to Bates .  Or maybe Master. Now if your  wife  brings another man into the marriage, you can lay down the rules, since your the  husband. And let tyrone understand that now both of you can share your wife and her costs.  Also, let Tyrone know he can  drive  her on fridays to her favorite shop, and  buy her, the favorite,Christian dior clothing, your wife collects  and resells. Finally,  ask Tyrone if he makes good money to support his wife's splendid great taste.  If he can't afford your wife, then he's on his own,in that area, you been dishing out lots of money for your wife for many years.     Now, and it's about time, someone steps up to,the plate, since Tyrone,  likes this married woman.  So now, take a break and go fishing  or find quiet spot to blog about  your wife's lustful escape.  Be the great diamond air man of this era- don't stoop to her level, and cheat- Gods watching.   Be a good boy and if you love your wife, go back to your her and forgive her, you married her, you took vows, forgive her.    It's going to be hard -but, be 'That man' with jewels of steel~!  If your love her forgiveness must be done.  Trust me Karma is in the bible.    And as for the wife  if you decide to come back to him, after his lustful sickness  brought  forth a lawrence of Arabia and you fell in love with Lawrence of Arabia, , then forgive your husband and  you  if  you think  i'ts okay by sharing your marriage then it's your marriage,  sooner or later, your going to sing like "the average white band"- A love of your own."     So, if this happens, get a  divorce under the grounds of adultery and start fresh.   And  if you bring a tyrone into the a marriage, your no better than your husband bringing another female into your marriage. So awfully unhealthy!,  You both, might as well  join the Joseph smith family of  mormons. They allow such catastrophe!