vulnerabilityInLove

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#278 🔸 People who open up first in a relationship are not naive, they are the most courageous

22 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  The fears of abandonment and rejection I wrote about last time share a common denominator: they make you hide. To show less, to ask for less, to risk less. And precisely the opposite of this hiding, genuine vulnerability, is today's subject, becaus...

#277 🔸 Why you sabotage good relationships without realising you are doing it

21 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Genuine empathy, which I wrote about last time, requires something not all of us can offer consistently: presence without fear. And it is precisely fear that, in many relationships, functions as an invisible saboteur, especially the fear of abandon...