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#361 🔸 What makes the difference between being next to someone and truly being with someone

17 Jul 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Reflection on sexual experiences as a source of self-knowledge, which I wrote about last time, brings us to a conclusion that is both simple and profound: the quality of intimate life depends less on what you do and more on how present you are in w...

#310 🔸 The only thing that makes the difference between an ordinary intimate moment and an unforgettable one

12 Jun 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman

  Past intimate experiences shape us, as I wrote last time, but what we have the power to change is the quality of the present experience. And that quality depends, more than anything else, on a single thing: how present you are in the moment when it...

#307 🔸 Why pleasure is not just physical and what you lose when you treat it as though it were

10 Jun 2026 3 minute read 3 comments luciman

  Emotions that live in the body and filter the sensory experience, which I wrote about last time, bring us to a broader and more fascinating question: what is pleasure actually and where does it truly come from? Because if pleasure were purely physi...