ResentmentInRelationships

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#447 🔸 Why small unspoken grievances are more dangerous for a relationship than major arguments

14 Sep 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.05

The way attachment changes over time, which I wrote about last time, also happens through what we leave unaddressed. And there is one category of things we systematically accumulate in any long-term relationship, not the big conflicts that are visi...

#447 🔸 Why small unspoken grievances are more dangerous for a relationship than major arguments

#231 🔸 How to manage expectations and interpersonal disappointments

19 Apr 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01

If constructive feedback asks us to tell difficult truths with care, there is an even harder type of truth to voice: the one we carry when someone we care about has disappointed us. Not necessarily through anything dramatic, but through the distance...