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#450 🔸 Why you think you know your partner completely and why that is the most dangerous illusion in a relationship

16 Sep 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.03

  The art of the genuine apology, which I wrote about last time, requires recognising that you have wronged a real person, not the image you have built of them. That distinction, between the real person and their image in your mind, brings me to toda...

#283 🔸 Why passion does not die on its own and who actually kills it

25 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.01

  Shared adventure, which I wrote about last time, is one of the ingredients that keep a relationship alive. But there is something deeper than adventure, something that precedes it and without which adventure remains an isolated event: passion. Not...

#253 🔸 How to maintain attraction after years of living together

4 May 2026 3 minute read 0 comments luciman $0.09

  Love and desire do not follow the same calendar, and the better we understand that, the greater our chances of building something that lasts. Attraction does not disappear all at once. It erodes slowly, in layers, and most of the time you d...