Olawalium
Olawalium

Olawalium

God's son. Giver. Motivational Speaker. Relationship coach. Writer. Poet. Football lover...


Unrealistic Expectations, IV.

6 Nov 2022 4 minute read 4 comments Olawalium

We need to understand that everyone has their life and no one owes us anything. If they freely give to us, it is out of the kindness of their hearts and not because they are obligated to. Relationships expose our vulnerability which is why we need...

Unrealistic Expectations, III.

5 Nov 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Olawalium

When I was planning for my wedding, I told our boss officially that I would be getting married and once in a while when he comes to the office he would make jest of me as the groom and then genuinely ask how the plans were going and all I ever answ...

Unrealistic Expectations, II.

4 Nov 2022 4 minute read 2 comments Olawalium

I am not saying you shouldn’t have expectations due to fear or lack of trust, I am only saying you shouldn’t have unhealthy expectations as to how you think your boyfriend or girlfriend should or must act. Stop playing the role of a wife or husband...

Unrealistic Expectations.

3 Nov 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Olawalium

As humans, I know we all have expectations. I doubt there is any human without expectations...at least to some certain degree. We all have expectations and they are in varying degrees depending on who we are, our exposures and mostly backgrounds to...

The Joy of The Lord, II.

2 Nov 2022 3 minute read 2 comments Olawalium

This is the second part and a continuation of the first part but even without reading the first part, you can fully grasp what the message is all about because they are both independent articles but I still suggest we read the first part to get the...

The Joy of The Lord.

1 Nov 2022 3 minute read 0 comments Olawalium

As believers we are to be full of joy at all times regardless of the situation. It's not easy but that's a call to the life of faith in God. We don't see things the way the world sees things. With faith, you only have to believe it is possible even...

Life and Rejection.

31 Oct 2022 3 minute read 2 comments Olawalium

A lot of people take rejection too much to heart. The truth of the matter is, it's not the fact that they got rejected that hurts them more but the expectations they had before the rejection. Sometimes you dream everything would go just as you plan...

Warning...

30 Oct 2022 3 minute read 2 comments Olawalium

There are so many life lessons and I've heard quite a lot and seen quite a lot. There is a popular saying: "Actions speak louder than words." It is not farther from the truth. In fact, it's the truth. Some people won't tell you how they feel about...

Perspective To Life.

29 Oct 2022 3 minute read 0 comments Olawalium

We all have different perspective to life. We see things differently. We feel things deeply more than others. We are shaped by our experiences. Our position to life is majorly dependent on what we have heard, seen or experiences. How Did We Get He...

FPL Review: Week 13.

28 Oct 2022 4 minute read 0 comments Olawalium

The first game of the weekend started so well and I was already dreaming of 80 points + for my Fantasy Premier League team. I managed to get 69 points. I wish I got more but it is what it is. It was another weekend full of drama and unexpected outc...