These are random questions someone asked and I decided to do justice to mine as well. They are quite lengthy so I would break them into two parts.
Let's get down to brass tacks.
What would I truly regret not doing if I died tonight?
Simple and short...I would regret not writing my book and also not birthing the initiative I have for students or let me say, teenagers. It's my way of preparing them and giving them the opportunity I never had while growing up.
What would I do with my remaining days, if I only had a year left to live?
I would write a book with it while spending time with my family. They said wise words are for fools who never said enough when they were alive. I would write a book that would be filled with everything I know about life and people which would be evergreen. It would be a guide to living because most of us are not being prepared for life...we just happen on life and we are left to figure things out on our own.
Have I done something recently that I could be proud of?
Helping people in the little way that I can. I recently took up a curation work on two blogging platforms which makes me happy to reward users. Knowing that their posts are getting noticed would always put a smile on my face.
What would I do if my biggest fear come true?
Nothing. That's the truth. I've been thrown to the wolves many times and I came back leading the pack. I've lost my elder sister, I've lost my dad and my mum. I lost our first child at birth in 2019... So, I've had my fair share of misfortune and here I am...still positive about life.
What advice has someone in my family given that I have taken just in time?
Follow your heart and it would never lead you wrong. It might lead you around but never wrong because it affords you the opportunity to learn how to take responsibility for your actions and learn faster.
Am I a servant of money, or does money serve me?
Everyone that knows me knows that I don't bother my head with money. I see money as a tool and I've said it many times. Even when I don't have excess and I see someone I need, I would rather give it out. When what you have is not enough to meet your need, turn it into a seed. I guess that sums up my mentality about money. Money works for me and not the other way round.
Why am I afraid of being true to myself when others are around?
I'm never afraid of being who I am or being true to myself. I speak when I have to speak and observe when I need to. When I am not talking, I am observing. I learn so much just by observing than speaking. I know a lot of people want to talk all the time because it's human nature to strive for attention but you will be shocked as to what I know about someone just by observing them.
When was the last time I extended kindness to somebody?
A day before, yesterday, today, a few hours ago and every day. My mantra has always been: "I would rather live for a day and touch many lives than live for a hundred years and not be remembered by anyone." I'm not the type that blows my trumpet when I help anyone. That's between me, the person and God...who sees my intentions.
What question do I want to know the answer to if it will help humanity?
Where did it go wrong for humans and how can we fix it urgently? Can we all have a reset button because the world has gone mad?
What do I really want from life?
I want the power of love to override the love for power and I want a fulfilled purpose too.
What aspect of my personality still needs improvement?
The use of my words when I get angry. I don't like getting angry and it takes a while for me to. I burst after I've observed and soaked it all in which might be a little too much most of the time... It's scary and that person might want to reconsider going back into the womb.
Also, I can be too laid back sometimes. I want to always act with urgency. I will write a post or two about complacency soon. How we can know when we are getting complacent about things or life. I should do that before the end of the week... hopefully.
Must I take other people's advice?
It's not a must for me to take other people's advice but it's necessary for me to take them if I want to grow. We see differently and understand differently. No man has the monopoly of knowledge so we know in parts as humans are intertwined. We feed off each other to make a whole. I would have to process your advice and see where it fits in my life and then work on it. We all need one another.
...to be continued...
This post also appeared here and it's my original work on my blog on [Read.Cash](https://read.cash/@Olasquare/random-questions-about-me-bfb39097).
Thank you for your time.
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