**I've been neglected a lot, so now I don't show neglect anymore**
At some point in life, we encounter experiences that change us in a way. Being a victim of neglect, insult, or mental pain teaches us a lot. Especially when we are neglected again and again, we feel like, not this time, not this time, it can't be done anymore.
Neglect does not just mean physical or mental harm, it destroys our confidence and mental peace and hurts us. When we expect love or respect from others and don't get it, then a kind of helplessness or despair surrounds us. But, at some point, it doesn't apply anymore, because what respect can we expect from those who have become inhuman. And that's when their neglect and insult become our strength.
After being neglected, we learn how to respect ourselves, how to take care of ourselves. No matter how much people neglect us, in the end we understand our own worth. This realization comes with time. When we get hurt by giving too much importance to someone, then we understand that it is better not to depend on others for our happiness.
An important thing here is not to make yourself look like others, let others do what they want, and they will definitely get their results. Keeping this in mind, evaluate yourself in your own eyes. Although it is not easy, but once we adopt this attitude, our confidence will become much stronger.
Nowadays, I know that my happiness or peace will not depend on whether someone insults or neglects me. I know that the most important thing is to be with those who love me, who like me, and to be with my family and parents. If you walk with confidence, the neglect of others will no longer affect you.
So, from today, I will not let anyone determine my value. I know who I am, what I want, and how I want to build my life. The decision I came to after being neglected is to love myself first. I am self-sufficient with my parents and family, why should I suffer by thinking of myself as someone who is unnecessarily neglectful? Anyway, not today.
