Is it that kids this days don't respect, or I'm the one who expects too much from them.๐คท๐พโโ I remember when I was a kid, adults around me were also saying kids of our time don't respect. Is it just something every adult says, or things are getting worse by the day?๐ค
When I was in primary school, you greeted almost every adult you meet in your way to or from school. This days, parents tell their kids not to talk to strangers,๐ค so kids feel even greeting someone you don't know is also talking to a stranger. I don't know if not talking to strangers is a problem on its own or it's a solution to a problem.๐คซ
I believe when they are told not to acknowledge adults,๐ ๐พโโ that's when they start abusing it and decide not to even take corrections from adults and hence, start disrespecting adults. Is bad parenting the cause of our woes? Governments๐จ๐พโโ๏ธ now interfere in how kids are raised and have even more rights to children than their parents and guardians.
When I was younger,๐ฉโ whenever I watch a western movie๐ฌ and I see kids being allowed too much freedom, I was happy๐บ๐พ about that and wish that would be extended to Ghana.๐ฌ๐ญ As I get older, I've realised that such freedom is the reason why the western cultures are suffering now. Society has broken down.
Some parents๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ have taken up a new "skill" where they don't say "no" too often to their kids. Who thought them that?๐คฆ๐พโโ If your kid doesn't know what's wrong,โ how do you expect the kid to know what's right?โ๏ธ Everything becomes a yes because there's no no and then they start misbehaving.
When I was a kid, you can be doing something wrong and the look my mum๐ will give you will make you stop๐ซ immediately and sometimes even cause you to cry. This days, when kids are doing something wrong and you look at them sternly, they stare๐at you mischievously and continue with whatever it is they were doing.
The West says caning your child is abuse which causes depression and some long terms problems. I was caned when I was a child but I'm not depressed and I don't believe I've been traumatized by it. More children are abused, traumatized and depressed now where punishing a child and saying no has been pushed to the back.
I miss๐ the days when I was younger where if you do something at home, your parents can bring you to school to be whipped. Now when teachers๐จ๐พโ๐ซ cane children, parents take them to court. Looking back, I miss the old days.