A lot of us always believe that love is always a happy ever after and that there literally is someone for us who will love us and make us feel like we are enough to them. But, would that be really the case? Are we really meant to find someone who is going to put back all the pieces together torn by our fears, regrets, disappointments and wars we never conquered ourselves? Do you believe that you need someone to pick up the pieces of our broken soul?
For me, that is not the case. I believe that before we let someone else into our life, we must be whole ourselves. Before letting someone else in, we must have conquered the battle of our own fears and regrets. No one is going to heal you except when you allow yourself to be healed. You are the only one who can put back all the pieces together because that is your piece. It’s the puzzle you are very familiar with, your soul. Accept all your flaws because truth is, nobody is perfect. We mess up things, but as long as there is life, we always have the chance to change our future for the better. We have to love ourselves more because that is a way of telling others how to treat you. Let us not be dependent on others to fix us. As much as they want to help fix you, if you are not allowing it, you cannot be fix. The power always lies within us. Being whole isn’t dependent on others. Yes, they may add up a bit of colors and happiness to our life, but always remember, in your story, you are the main character. They are just a part of you that may come and go. But you, yourself is the only one who will always be there for you. Love is you. And you can only share it to others if you are happy with what you have and who you become. You are your happy ever after.
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