This argumentative question appeared in the General Cambridge of Education “O” Levels for English Language in 2024:

** ‘We should all value time spent alone.’ How far would you agree?**

Was surprised to come across this question posed to 10th graders (15-and-16 year olds). After all, these teenagers should still find it easy to make friends and maintain connections. They spend half the day on their studies and co-curricular pursuits. They are also at an age when they need to find their tribe and would frown upon the thought of being alone. Alone = loneliness is an irrefutable equation for them.

Personally, as I spend time at work and with my family, I increasingly feel the need for solitude. Sometimes, I would rather have lunch alone than partake in inane chatter with colleagues about - of all things - work. Add to this a preschooler’s incessant questioning and a toddler’s tantrums, and you might end up like me. Savouring a cup of coffee late in the afternoon just because. Lying down in bed for 15-20 mins before I embrace my kids back into my life.

Is alone time an important priority for you?