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I am @bristy1 , a member of this platform. And my dear friends of this beloved community, I hope everyone is well. I am also well, Alhamdulillah. I started my post today by wishing everyone good health.

Selfish people do not seek relationships, but only opportunities. This is a bitter but real truth. In society, we often see people who wear the mask of friendship, love or sympathy. But their real purpose is only to achieve their own interests. They do not understand the value of relationships, they only understand how much benefit can be taken and who can be used to make their way easier.

The first characteristic of selfish people is that they always think of the word "I" in a big way. The pain, feelings, or needs of others are not important to them. As long as they are getting something in return, they will be there for you. But once the interest ends, the relationship fades away. For example, some people make friends only when they are in trouble and need someone to help them. Once the problem is solved, they don't even look for that friend anymore.

The same picture can be seen in real life at work. There are many colleagues who behave very friendly in front, but inside they only look for ways to improve themselves. They magnify their own achievements by belittling your achievements. They value competition and opportunity instead of relationships. Selfishness causes the most damage to family and close relationships. There are many people in the family or circle of friends who only come close when needed. They are not happy with your success, but try to take advantage of you by pretending to sympathize when you are in danger. This not only hurts relationships, but also breaks people's trust.

But knowing this reality is not bad. Rather, it is necessary for us to know selfish people. Because in this we learn who to keep a distance from. If we are not masked by selfish people, we are not easily deceived. Experience at every stage of life teaches us that true relationships are not built on interests, but on trust, compassion and mutual respect.

So it can be said that selfish people can never build real relationships. They just wander around looking for opportunities, until they have some benefit. Accepting this reality, we should keep the right people by our side and stay away from fake relationships. Because real relationships are always selfless, and selfishness only increases loneliness.

May everyone be very, very well and healthy. Sincere love to all. Please forgive me for my mistakes in the entire post.