Being in a relationship is a very nice thing, 

I normally regards it as a preparatory for marriage.

In it we learn a lot of things such as (Tolerence, Patience, Forgiveness, Love and Care, respect, most importantly the ability to understand  e.t.c), Regardless of how sweet It is, without undergoing all this above mentioned measures,

relationship becomes sore, in the sense that he/she will regret ever entering into that chapter of relationship. Before entering into a relationship one must have come of age, one must be matured not by age but by your way of understanding and your ability of thinking because of the odds that comes out of it, for relationship comes with alot of responsibilities.

There is no relationship that has not witnessed a time of ups and downs but this does not really matters, but what matters is how you reacted towards it.

One of the reasons why people have problem in a their relationship life is our inability understand what relationship is all about, for some boys, they sees it as a means to have pleasure with girls(have s3x with the girl and breakup with her),while some girls sees it as good time to play boys and make a lot of money out of it(whereby having both multiple boyfriends and man friends "sugar daddies" although even boys do same with their sugar mummies), if one have this kind of mindset while entering into relationship, he/she will be disappointed, a good and healthy relationship must desist from the above phrase.